thank you for writing this! I really enjoyed your take on it and it provided a different perspective than other articles i've read on this topic.
esp this: "Becoming more secure is not a matter of “fixing” one’s attachment style, but rather, balancing the polarities of anxious and avoidant that exist inside all of us. And the way to do that is to tap into our subconscious desires." This was something I didn't realize but it makes a lot of sense!
thank you for writing this! I really enjoyed your take on it and it provided a different perspective than other articles i've read on this topic.
esp this: "Becoming more secure is not a matter of “fixing” one’s attachment style, but rather, balancing the polarities of anxious and avoidant that exist inside all of us. And the way to do that is to tap into our subconscious desires." This was something I didn't realize but it makes a lot of sense!
as a self-diagnosed avoidant, both the conscious and unconscious fears are so accurate
the inversion is literally me