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Frederik Gieschen's avatar

"the people we fall in love with often reveal to us untapped possibilities in ourselves" - Yes, I've found this to lead to unexpressed desires/dreams that were difficult to admit, and areas of my life that were not getting enough attention. In the IFS framework, this led to parts that were not being heard.

Such a simple question: "what *about* her makes me feel so alive?" -> art, adventure etc. when those things were missing in my life

Thanks for this piece!

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Poetry Culture's avatar

What ended up happening to the woman who only went to Michelin starred restaurants? Did she have a turn like in the movie and marry a middle class (or lower) guy or did she stay in rich world forever?

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