"I used to wonder whether it was even appropriate to rely on another person to fulfill an emotional need or whether it was better to rely on myself."
I learned that a lot of this comes from the way our parents interacted with our feelings during our adolescent years. If they acknowledged and engaged with your feelings, you would feel more comfortable relying on another as you got older. But if you were stuck to deal with them on your own - as is the case in many Asian households - then you only really trust yourself.
Another wonderful piece! Communication really is key.
Thank you, yet again, for so gently organizing all of my worries into positive notes <3
"I used to wonder whether it was even appropriate to rely on another person to fulfill an emotional need or whether it was better to rely on myself."
I learned that a lot of this comes from the way our parents interacted with our feelings during our adolescent years. If they acknowledged and engaged with your feelings, you would feel more comfortable relying on another as you got older. But if you were stuck to deal with them on your own - as is the case in many Asian households - then you only really trust yourself.
Another wonderful piece! Communication really is key.